Cheaters Beware: If She Cheats With You, She'll Cheat on You

This guy I know, let's call him "Drake", had been in a relationship with his wife "Mia" for two years before he married her. He had met Mia while he was an undergrad at a HBCU in the south. Mia was the southern belle type: charming, beguiling, and insatiable. She could even cook up a mean pot of red beans and rice. The perfect woman, right?

Wrong. Mia got a kick out of sleeping with men who were attached. In fact, those were the only men she went after. She was known in her hometown for sleeping with other women's boyfriends. She slept with Drake while she knew he had a girlfriend. She even had to run and hide when the girlfriend burst into Drake's apartment to confront him. The coward that Mia was, she hid until her friend's could come and escort her out of Drake's apartment. But this was not the first time Miss Mia had slept with someone's man. She had also slept with her roommates boyfriend while her roommate was at work. Somehow, Drake didn't know that his new chick was getting around. He was so bamboozled by her charm and earthy good looks that he didn't see past the mind-blowing sex.

Well fast-forward to the marriage, it wasn't long before Mia's eye started to wonder. Mia began meeting men at her job, then it was out clubbing, then it was just random men she had come across. She cam across a guy who was so impressive, she was bold enough to invite him into the bedroom that she and Drake shared. Drake worked long hours and Mia always allowed their son to stay at the babysitter a little while longer before she was due to pick him up.

Mia invited her new lover over to the house where they engaged in of course--sex. Mia's notorious appetite for attention combined with her whorish way allowed her to be stupid enough to think she would not get caught. Drake just happened to come home while Miss Mia was getting her freak on. Stunned and sick to his stomach, Drake couldn't believe his perfect wife, the one who makes the smokin' hot red beans and rice could do this to him. But let's rewind...

Drake forgot that his girl from college stood in his apartment with tears in her eyes when she caught him and Mia together a few years earlier. Accident perhaps? I think not. Drake was officially introduced to karma. And to make matters worse, the man Mia slept with wasn't even black. Talk about a blow to the ego!

So with that said, men be careful about falling in love with the woman who is cheating with you. Yes the red beans and rice may be good, but if you're not careful, you can still get burned. Address issues in your relationship whether your woman wants to hear it or not. You might be surprised at her response.