Showing posts with label marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label marriage. Show all posts

Saturday, May 9, 2009

Black Women Pressuring Men to Commit Because Their Biological Clock is Ticking


This is a topic from a good friend of mine. Please place your comments!!

I have a topic that I would like to discuss. Women that pressure men to commit because their biological clock is ticking or because her friend Erica just had a baby and it is making you feel left out.

In my humble opinion just because your biological clock is ticking shouldn't cause you to force your man to make a life changing decision to commit to you, especially if he is not ready. That is like you are a homeowner and you need to sell your home in the few months because you are facing foreclosure. Yes, I may be a potential home buyer and would like to buy your home, but I am not going to make a deal "close" on your home because you are pressed.


Pressuring a man to commit is not only selfish it can also make for a very resentful situation down the line. You may question yourself, if you wanted to settle down and have children then why did you wait until the last minute. I know there were some folk in your earlier years that could have made that happen, but you were too picky. In other words, the house that you had on the market was priced TOO HIGH!!!
BW